I am going to be blunt, I get to responses when I get to them. This site is a hobby, not a job or an obligation, I do not owe you my time or even my kindness. Snippy and passive aggressive remarks won't get you anywhere, if anything they just reflect poorly on you as a person. So I am going to say this once:
If you expect a deadline with responses, you should probably just remove yourself. And, if you're going to act out over it, you should probably go outside and touch some grass.
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I feel the exact same; I mean I don't mind occasional check ups if I am reasonably slow. As it shows the other party is still interested too. But there's a difference between check ups and being rushed.
"Nothing wrong with that sweetie, a little bump after I'd say a week or two is just fine if responses are as said reasonably slow, but indeed pestering like every minute, hour or so is certainly not reasonable."
I have a strong belief that people will reply when they can and if they don't want to then thats ok too.